Cemetery Advocacy:
Finding your voice and making it work
by Jeanne Robinson
Many of us are involved in worthwhile cemetery projects. But are
we advocates? More importantly, are we effective advocates?
Webster’s defines an advocate as one who pleads a cause.
If you are compiling a cemetery listing, this is extremely worthwhile
and valuable. If you are organizing others to record, restore,
clean or preserve a cemetery, you MAY be an advocate. If you are
successful in organizing and helping to implement a cemetery restoration
project with plans for continued maintenance and income, you are
an effective advocate.
To plead a cause, you must know what it is and be able to communicate
it clearly to others. For instance, the premise is your cemetery
is valuable. The problem is the cemetery is suffering from neglect
and vandalism. The solution is ???
Before anyone else is going to help you, they will have to first
buy into the premise that cemeteries are valuable. Some people
will have no difficulty getting there, but others will have to
be told why. You must be able to articulate why cemeteries are
valuable.
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They are repositories of unique
genealogical, historical, religious, cultural, societal and
medical information that may not be recorded in any other format. |
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They are free public museums filled
with history and irreplaceable artwork. |
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They are places in which the average
citizen has an opportunity to walk in the footsteps of their
ancestors. |
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They are sources of humor, pathos,
and folklore. |
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They are laboratories filled with
antique biological specimens. |
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They are habitat for birds and
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You will also need to be able to describe the problem. Your audience
may not have experienced visiting a neglected or vandalized cemetery.
You may need to take them to see for themselves or produce photographic
evidence.
You may need to explain to others WHY cemeteries are neglected
and vandalized. Be prepared to talk about your cemetery, its location,
the attitude of neighbors and youth in the area, the societal differences
between us and our ancestors, etc.
You will need to have a clear solution in mind -- well thought
out with costs, time lines, impact to the cemetery, visitors, neighborhood,
etc., and plans for on-going maintenance after the solution is
implemented.
All of this is part of your plan. You will probably find you have
multiple items that need to be done to improve your cemetery, so
be prepared to prioritize them. You may seek help from separate
groups of individuals to implement your ultimate goals. Some will
take no money (an inventory) while others can be very costly (fending,
lighting, professional restoration of multiple stones, landscaping,
etc.). Your plan needs to include all of the goals.
DON’T DO THIS ALONE! You have selected YOUR cemetery
because it is special to you for some reason. Find others who feel
as you do (for whatever reason) and enlist their help in developing
your plan. These may also be some of the people who implement parts
of your plan. Look for help from:
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Descendants of people buried in
the cemetery |
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Cemetery neighbors |
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Local service groups (church,
Boy Scouts, Rotary or Lions clubs, garden clubs, etc.) |
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Historical and genealogical societies |
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Community leaders and local government |
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Local and State police |
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County Community Service workers
from Corrections Departments |
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Local media (newspapers, radio,
TV) |
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Schools -- all grades and college |
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Foundations and businesses |
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State Senators and Representatives |
These people can help clarify your plea and enhance your voice.
They will help you be an effective advocate (or one or more of
them may do it better than you). Remember, the goal is to fix your
cemetery -- not to gain recognition for having done so. Stay focused.
Form a Board of Trustees, Cemetery Association, or Cemetery Maintenance
District. Incorporate your goal (plan) into your mission, bylaws,
charter, or incorporation papers. Seek members, keep them involved,
and encourage the education and enlistment of new members. If your
group is not self-sustaining, the goal will end when your membership
dies.
When establishing your group, look to similar organizations for
ideas. Other associations will usually be pleased to provide copies
of their bylaws for your use in writing your own. Ask other cemetery
associations, genealogical or historical societies, and other groups
you feel run smoothly.
Choose a document such as Robert’s Rules of Order or various
Guidelines for Forming Non-Profit Associations as your chosen reference
and follow directions for organizational meetings, writing mission
and bylaws, filing incorporation papers, running meetings, etc.
Keep in mind that bylaws should not include basic operating procedures
that might change frequently. A separate document can be created
to address your procedures as well as rules for your cemetery.
When your voice is loud and clear, seek help. Don’t be afraid
to ask for help. The worst that can happen is they will say no.
Then you can ask again or ask someone else.
When your goals begin to become accomplishments -- when people
start talking about how nice your cemetery is looking and what
a good job the cemetery group (not a single individual) is doing
-- when others are coming to your group for advice -- than you
are an effective advocate.
NOTE: The above is from a presentation at Our Sacred Heritage
Conference held in Boise, Idaho September 10-11, 1998. We thank
the Idaho Historic Preservation Council for inviting our participation.
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